Welcome to another insightful installment of the 3Spoonies podcast, where hosts Jo, Karen, and Claire continue their engaging discussion with Amber, a trailblazer in the bridal industry. This episode, titled “Community Questions: Looking at Accessible Weddings,” delves into the nuances of planning weddings that are inclusive and considerate of all guests’ needs.
Meet Amber
Amber, a bridal designer and owner of South Yorkshire’s only fully accessible bridal boutique, returns to share her expertise on creating weddings that cater to everyone. Her mission is to normalise disability within the wedding industry, promoting inclusivity and accessibility. Find out more about Amber here.
Key Topics Discussed
1. Managing Sensory Sensitivities
A common concern among wedding guests is managing sensory sensitivities, particularly related to perfumes. Amber assures listeners that it is perfectly acceptable to include requests on wedding invitations asking guests to avoid wearing perfumes. This consideration is as important as noting dietary requirements, ensuring a comfortable environment for everyone.
2. Wedding Registries and Accessibility
The conversation also touches on the appropriateness of including specialised items in wedding registries. As traditional registries evolve, Amber suggests couples can request monetary contributions towards adaptive household items or even a honeymoon. This modern approach is flexible and can be tailored to meet specific needs, such as acquiring accessible kitchen appliances.
3. Setting Up a Chill-Out Room
The idea of a chill-out room for guests who may become overwhelmed is another vital topic. Amber and the hosts discuss the possibility of hiring specialists or creating a DIY sensory-friendly space. Such a room can be equipped with sensory items like bubble machines and quiet games, providing a retreat for guests needing a break from the festivities.
4. Campaigning for Change
Amber shares her campaign to bring greater visibility to disabled individuals within the wedding industry. Her efforts include featuring photos of brides and grooms with various requirements in notable publications like Vogue, advocating for a more inclusive representation. Her ultimate goal is to secure a significant spread in Vogue, highlighting diverse stories and experiences.
Final Thoughts
The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to support Amber’s campaign and engage in discussions about making weddings more accessible. The hosts invite the audience to share their thoughts and questions, encouraging a community-driven dialogue on accessibility. Find out more about Amber here.
This episode of 3Spoonies underscores the importance of inclusivity in wedding planning, offering practical advice and inspiring initiatives for change. Whether you’re a bride, groom, or guest, these insights can help create a more welcoming and accommodating celebration for all.
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